2&2 "Frankly Guy, I've delighted in having a great friend on this journey." Wow...thank you. It lightens my heart. "If we can fantasise about p, we can redirect that and fantasise instead about life post-p." Duh! Now there's a thought! I don't even have to imagine. INSTEAD of beating myself up (or off, pun intended), I can be assured that I CAN go for an extended period without using porn or masturbating to it...because I HAVE DONE IT. I can't read any more into that time, I'm not going to try to re-create it. It's a fact that, whatever the circumstances were, I went for 169 days without PMOing. Thank you for directing my thought and focus in that direction. Love you!