Discussion in 'Ages 40+' started by Bobo, Oct 5, 2017.
I'm Dominant and have my concubines and subs
I will not act out the " sex on demand " scenario but I will not put up with "I had a bad day:-- you had it last weekend --- is that all you think about ?--- I've got a bad headache --- I am so tired if you did what I do everyday -- and so forth!
The thing is when women realize you wont put up with that crap they dont do it. Ah yes they will test you in beginning but when they see the real you I think they find that attractive unless of course its a power grab. Men are physically stronger to protect and defend, women are weaker physically but more on the alkaline side--- if they want to take mens roles ok but in the end they are not happy nor fufilled as a woman or a person and their men are emasculated. Look at the modern world around you.
Awake early this am. Heather and I made love last night. Just a regular session so I could hide the scar entry point of the vascetomy. Things worked fine he was correct nothing unusual. Heather dosent bknow anything and I dont know if I will say anything. I would imagine you could make something different ( sex wise ) if you let your mind dwell and take over. As it is "A--OK!
Women will constantly shit test us. They are hard wired to do so. It's up to us to understand their hypergamous nature
I agree but basically with the modern world. Say the last 75 years. Bummer isnt it ?
Yes it’s accelerated in the last 10 years.
Look on the bright side, couple of old farts like us wouldn’t be able to bang and do 3 ways and kinky shit with the hot young things like we are 30 years ago.
Yes! Hahaha! I think that is true. The response we give could be the same back then but we would have to be more secretive. I think women have always been attracted to this but back then they would have to feel totally, totally safe. Yup, old farts !
Bobo, what made you change your mind about the vasectomy? You were quite critical at first. What can you tell about possible side effects? I am also thinking about it, but don't feel like messing with that part of my body either. What are your tboughts on vasectomy and ejaculation control?
There was a change in my personal life a significant one. I had to realize Heather would get pregnant given the potency of my sperm that the tests showed. She is using birth control pills but they dont always work as you know. I dont want any more children!
I did a lot of research and spoke to 5 different doctors before I became comfortable with the last doctor.
I will write more about this Gil79 later have to go now----
To continue Gil79 --I was still very wary of vascetomy so I went from physician to physician. Not that I was liking what I heard I went to this fella and he did something doctors dont do"LOOK YOU IN THE EYE!" First positive thing. From there he explained that done correctly it should not affect you and if you dont like it it can be reversed simply as it was done. When I explained my concerns he smiled and said he had the same concerns he had it done since he has 3 children and like me does not want any more kids. After a short exam and blood test I came back 2 days later and he said you will be fine no after effects can be done in office will take 45 mins total.
So I had decision to make btw blood test this am shows I am fine and sex last night was just like before and the ejaculation control I practise was fine lasted 45 mins because I wanted it to end and thats all Heather is able to stand anything more than that and she gets extremely sore, she apparently cant stay wet after that time period. Tumescence is like before so is everything else is fine. I noticed my mental state is better because I know she can't get pregnant now and she can get off the pills when I tell her which I have decided to do. Blood test this am showed I am sterile but have same amount of sperm. You have to make your own decision naturally. I would suggest you find a doctor you're ok with and get the real scoop not the bullshit. If I can help let me know. I hope I have answered your questions if not ask me more questions. I realize its a very personal thing for a male.
I had lunch with Heather today a late lunch. I told her I had a vascetomy and now I can go for more time when we make love ! Ha haha! I know she loved that ! Her eyes got wide and she put her head on table and groaned" oh no I can hardly keep up with you now ! I almost always have a sore pussy !" Oh well as I smiled! Hahahaha! I made her afternoon gave her something to think about at work !
I just read the last post. Sounds like" bragadosia " but it's not. Chinese ejaculation control which I practice works as a effective method of energy accumulation and sexual strength. I know Heather loves it though she complains. Having " wood" after 1 hour of love making makes her crazy! Hope this keeps up into my 80s or 90s !
I could control ejaculation and hold back just like you’re doing but with Viagra. Now I’m a 2 pump chump without it
No viagra ! You will be able to do it again. Just keep doing what your doing!
I’m holding you to it Bobo!
Watch what happens! You can hold me to it! Mentally become the observer not the thinker ! You have the physical down now try some mental power to go with the physical !
Thanks Bobo! I think I will have a search for a good surgeon then and not go for the first one out there. I think I am most afraid of blue balls. I read that it can take months before you are really sterile, because sperm cells can survive a long time in the sperm duct. Did your physician tell you anything about that?
Yes. He said that's true sometimes that why you take a blood test before so can see to see if the duct is congested with sperm. I gave great faith him. He seemed to be very honest. Said most will not tell you that unless you ask a question about it. The reason is obvious. Said the " blue balls " is a myth as he sees it. The "bloodie " I took after the procedure showed sperm was at 3 % were it was 94% before. It needs to be 12% to impregnate a woman. This is what I was told and I believed it you need to in investigate this for yourself each of us is different as you know. To be sure Heather will stay on pills until mid Febuary though I told her already. Good luck !
Dancing tonite. Its first break. Was in relax room ( no patrons allowed ). Heather looks very classy. Jamie with her grandma this weekend so we have farm to ourselves. Going to relax tomorrow have to get through rest of tonite------<
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