About time

Discussion in 'Ages 40+' started by Bobo, Oct 5, 2017.

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  1. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    We will have the weekend to ourselves. I asked Heather if she would like to go out to dinner at organic restaurant in town. Then go dancing at another club we dont dance at. She was very excited and wanted to dress up. Will be a very romantic evening. I dressed and was waiting for her on porch. Wow! She came out in a skintight one piece leotard ! Her big boobs were showing because the leotard was so low cut. No panties you could see that because it was so skintight. Dinner was wonderful and we are on way to dance club. Heather got a call from her judge. She's doing that now so I have some time to talk to you all. Will we just sleep tonight ah who knows! I said to Heather that maybe we should sleep before in truck she giggled and she put her tongue in my ear and rubbed my dick. Well I know she still sore so maybe I can insist. Heather thinks and rightfully so that it's a woman's job to please her man and she figures I am a sex maniac. I want her to rest. I am ok with that. Another night's sleep will be real good for her. Then !!!!!:rolleyes::D:D
     
  2. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Was a wonderful weekend. Jamie back in school today. She arguing with me after school today. I pay her $5 a day to do barn chores. She was away this weekend so she didn't do them so she gets payed 5days ×$5= $25. I did chores( so what). Heather was listening to us. Jamie wants me to pay her for 7 days because it's not her fault grandma and grandpa took her to Disney world. I want her to understand when you make a deal its done. Dosent matter what happens afterwards. So she gets $25. I told her if you think you should get more next time you turn down trip and do your chores whatever that are. She started to cry and but-but- but! Sorry little girl. Shes pissed at me but Iam $ 10 richer!:p
    Heather told her you made deal with him not me sorry dont complain to me when she started to complain to her mom. Then she went out to barn to pet her pony and do her chores and Iam sure she was cursing me out as she went to barn kicking dirt.:p
    Heather just looked at me and said she s not used to a man's ways. She laughed and said you're such a bastard! I told her
    right ---look out girlie your next !

    Raising kids ! Hahaha! Heather told me she needs that, a man that loves her and where she knows theres boundaries. As she said kids complain about boundaries but they are comfortable with them.
    My libido is non existent today. Libido what's that ?Heather is not feeling good today so that's convenient for me but not glad shes not feeling well. Besides we fucked our brains out this weekend. Sleep tonight.What's for dinner ?
     
    Last edited: Sep 23, 2019
  3. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Good sleep last night. Heather feels better today. Libido still down. To be expected. I am still healing and uncontrolled active libido is not normal for lack of a better word. I have learned through the healing journey that libido is up and down. Interest in sex is not a 100% constantly. If it is it's just another addiction at least that's my opinion.
     
  4. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Honestly I think some of that is age and being more susceptible to natural biorhythms
     
  5. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    While I would agree with what you say I still think most of it is healing. Reason for this: I have watched it get better with time away from pmo.
     
  6. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Hope your right Bobo. My fucking dick is still on strike even when my concubine un-holsters her beautiful DDD tits for me to suck on!
     
  7. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    I am right. You must and I mean MUST stay the course ! Just keep going what you gonna do go back to pmo ? One of these days your dick will see those triple d's and go nuts ! I am right got it ?
     
  8. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Roger out
     
  9. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Deleted another post. You guys woulndt be interested. Like I said before when I think I write in my journal.
     
  10. Saville

    Saville Well-Known Member

    Sometimes we have a lot in our heads. Writing it down is good and sometimes deleting is also good. lol

    Yep! I stopped doing the ten minutes of biking I was doing every day and gained 10lbs back. Ten minutes out of a day feels insignificant, but it's worth 10lbs to me. Same thing goes for PMO and fapping. Doing it once or twice a week feels like nothing, but...
     
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  11. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Yes! The simplest of actions can have and usually have profound results. We often don't see it that way. I believe very strongly that " you must believe you will succeed" that you must have a goal. In believing you will succeed in reality you will. Get back on the bike Saville! For others give up pmo (Saville) did it so did I. It can be done. Saville over 3 years and me over 2. No cheating you can do it.
     
  12. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    I was thinking about what Saville wrote. Like he said giving up porno is one thing but you must give up fapping also. This is one thing I dont think we give enough attention to.

    Fapping existed before internet. It was not spoken of openly like it is now. It is dangerous, addictive and destructive. It reduces your desire for women ( real life women) and makes you sexless. It will destroy you like porno just as completely. It will make you wonder if your sexual ability is powerful enough to be with women.
    I believe women can sense when you fap which leaves them confused and insecure about themselves.
    Just some thoughts------
    In my life the lack of fapping leaves only one place to put that sexual energy-- " she just bent over hmm is that pussy I see !":D
     
    Last edited: Sep 28, 2019
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  13. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Hey Bobo sitrep over?
     
  14. Saville

    Saville Well-Known Member

    If we were always to wear gloves on our hands we would lose contact with our fine motor skills. Fapping is no different.
     
  15. NCBob

    NCBob The 11th commandment: Thou shalt not peek:-)


    Good point, Saville. It's those little things that go a long way......in either direction:D
     
  16. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    What's that mean WB
    So true. I think also skin contact is quite different between your hand and female genitalia. Once you get used to your hand female genitalia becomes foreign. The skin texture is very very different. The skin of the hand is like 40 grit sandpaper when compared to a womans genitalia.
     
    Last edited: Oct 4, 2019
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  17. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    Situation report
     
  18. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    WB What situation ? Work ?
     
  19. Wild Bill

    Wild Bill Active Member

    You were off the net for awhile. Just doing a commo check
     
  20. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Busy and just life shit I didnt think "youse"guys would be interested in. How "is " you?
     

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