Yes, you have described EXACTLY the way of things. I look at things now and I am amazed that my libido like yours is is off the charts. Heather said to me that she realizes she never knew men what they are like it's very exciting for females makes them very sexual and feel womanly and loved. She said her mother said " you have a man baby girl and you once asked me why your dad when I was so young, now you see."What would I have been like as a 35 year old? Interesting, this wave is lasting much longer than the last. Yes, when I did P I had zero libido, I thought my sex life was over. Wonder why the change needs to happen?--- no matter how difficult it is?--- why it matters--- yup there it is folks.