About time

Discussion in 'Ages 40+' started by Bobo, Oct 5, 2017.

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  1. A New Man

    A New Man White Knuckle Brigade 2013

    Your recent posts might be "M" rated but hardly deserve to be pulled. This is what healthy adult sexual relationships can look like, thanks Bobo for showing us what's out there for us when we get healthy. I probably won't ever have the experiences you're having now, but I'm okay with that- I can still be healthy and happy and that's what it's about.

    I've always been reluctant to travel to the States but the Carribbean sounds like somewhere well worth a visit. Visited Hawaii one time for 2 days- was nice, and being Aussie it meant i avoided that local/mainland tension. "No dog in that fight" as they say.
     
  2. A New Man

    A New Man White Knuckle Brigade 2013

    Oh right, i think it is called PG-13 in the States.
     
  3. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Was thinking? Why arent moderators bugging me? You know what?-" I am going to be me and I think the information I dispense is to help me and hopefully members! If what you suggest is in fact the deal so be it they can ban me. Later--'going to make love to Heather! So there------':p
     
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  4. A New Man

    A New Man White Knuckle Brigade 2013

    Hey @Bobo the forum doesn't censor us as far as i know. I reported one post years ago that had a link to actual porn, but i'm not sure that post was even taken down in the end. It's probably just some internet weirdness, like emails arriving days after they were sent etc. Ignore me and carry on...
     
  5. Gil79

    Gil79 Seize the day

    :eek::eek:This is shocking! Report!!

    I saw your posts as well before they were removed. No idea why, but posts are deleted sometimes. Lately there's a lot of spam in the -19 section. I always report them and then they are deleted. Maybe someone found your posts to triggering and reported them after which they were deleted without second glance. You have to admit that your journal could be the script of a porn movie, lol:D

    Anyway, just keep posting. People can always not read your posts.
     
  6. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    I just noticed a couple of my most recent posts deleted. And the beat goes on !!!:rolleyes: Caribbean? Hmmm!
     
  7. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Up early today. Picking up Jamie who was with her grandmothers best friend. Heather asked if Nicole could stay with us, she really misses her sister. Yup no problem I have with that.

    However, something has come up with Heather that I have a problem with. I hope it can be resolved amicably.
     
  8. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    More posts missing and had no triggering in them as I have been told. Guess internet in Caribbean is weird and you're lucky if you can post at all or view.
     
  9. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Nicole wants us to stay at her house. I dont want to and Heather does. Problem! I payed for hotel, its centrally located and has a beautiful cedar Japanese tub. Dance clubs are within walking distance. Paying for it dosent matter. Heather said maybe she will stay there ( just to spite me I think). I said ok do it with no anger in sentence. Nicole hear it and said to me that she didn't want to start trouble. Told her she wasnt. I said listen if she wants to stay with you that's ok with me. Nicole giggled and said you wont listen to noise will you. Nope. I am going dancing Heather wants to go there with you that's fine.
     
  10. A New Man

    A New Man White Knuckle Brigade 2013

    If i quote you, then maybe your posts won't be deleted...
    Haha, careful indifference, the most dangerous tone of all!
     
  11. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Yup ANM! I went dancing last nite. Heather stayed with Nicole then showed up smiling later. She was pissed when she saw dancing with women, like what was I supposed to dance with ? A little bit of jealousy eh? Good for relationship eh? Jamie was with Nicole. Heather went back to Nicole's at end of nite. That was ok I needed a nite to myself. Heather asked me this am if I need some "me time?" Yup, was very quiet and amicable solution to the problem ---- how nice! We are taking Jamie to a water park this PM and Heather, Jamie, Nicole and I going to carnival this afternoon. Vacation going to fast. Had enough " me time" already.
     
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  12. A New Man

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  13. Bobo

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    Had a wonderful time at carnival and then water park with Jamie yesterday.

    Tub in room last nite with Heather. Had to be very vigilant with Jamie there sleeping. Got it figured out with some laughter. Heather said " kids deadly to sex life!" Yup, you just figured that out huh?--married and so forth ! She cursed me out! Haha!

    I love kids mine and Heather's but I wish I could zone them out when I want to get intimate with their mom. Life dudes!

    Since I quit pmo I am more adamant with what I want. Not pestering just assured. The feeling gets stronger as the time without pmo increases. Going close to 2 years now and dosent seem to be abating. Today going to be a day of rest. Hot springs and nap and fruit for food and maybe a wine cooler.
     
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  14. Bobo

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    I am at hot springs now. Heather wanted to go shopping with Jamie. Nicole just showed, said hello, stripped to a thong string bikini ( what an ass!) that barely covers her boobs and like her sister Heather her boobs are a thing to behold and went to bathroom they have down road. I have to be careful, what a body good grief!
     
  15. A New Man

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  16. A New Man

    A New Man White Knuckle Brigade 2013

    Haha i thought twice about copy pasting this one!
     
  17. A New Man

    A New Man White Knuckle Brigade 2013

     
  18. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    I notified the powers that be. Their answer was no they didnt delete. Claims this is not unusual for out of US. Apparently internet is not as sophisticated as the US. Btw noticed another post of mine disappeared. Thx ANM for copying it. Kind of wondering if it makes sense to post at all what with the deletions.
     
  19. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Well I'll try again or my posts will just keep getting deleted.

    Yesterday was very trying day for me. The situation with Heather and Nicole is quite challenging to me. A confusing occurence that I don't feel I am able to deal with sensibly. For me it is a situation that I never have dealt with before and never thought of it as they do. My upbringing and experience in the States doesn't factor in that situation. I spoke to Heather last nite and expressed to her that I am exasperated by this. While I dont want to ridicule or blame anyone I simply am not comfortable. Heather understands and said to me she is not surprised really by her sister's actions. Apparently par for the course in the Caribbean from what I gather. I think I will just look at it as a situation that happened and give it no more energy or importance than necessary. Though I must say Nicole has a " outrageous"body like Heather ! Good grief!:eek::D I asked Heather why she dose'nt have a man of her own ? She said she has never met anyone she wants except for you ! Of course she cant have you because you're mine, arent you ? Yes Heather. :rolleyes: Nicole understands. You really don't understand Caribbean women do you ? Nope! This vacation is turning into a cerebral experience instead of the fun it started to be.
     
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  20. Bobo

    Bobo Well-Known Member

    Went to hot springs today. Becoming a daily encounter. Nicole showed up. I asked her how or if she knew I was there. Told me Heather told her. She sat on edge of spring fully clothed. She then said she did not mean to upset me that she should have known I did not understand Caribbean ways. I said don't worry about it I ain't gonna die of heart failure but I might looking at you an Heather naked! She smiled and I then said ain't you gonna get in water. She did after she took off shorts and tank top. Good grief what a body I am gonna kick Heather's ass or probably do something else!:D Nicole gonna join us for dinner and drinks. Ya know if it wasnt for Heather--- Nicole would be in serious and I mean serious TROUBLE!!!!!:eek::eek::eek::D:D:D Glad this is over and worked out amicably.
     

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