Your recent posts might be "M" rated but hardly deserve to be pulled. This is what healthy adult sexual relationships can look like, thanks Bobo for showing us what's out there for us when we get healthy. I probably won't ever have the experiences you're having now, but I'm okay with that- I can still be healthy and happy and that's what it's about. I've always been reluctant to travel to the States but the Carribbean sounds like somewhere well worth a visit. Visited Hawaii one time for 2 days- was nice, and being Aussie it meant i avoided that local/mainland tension. "No dog in that fight" as they say.