No orgasm control does not give you blue balls. Once you accept the fact you do not have to cum each time you make love you don't get the strained feeling. The real reason for it is energy accumulation. I used to get bb back in the day when I didnt think about what I was doing. Was in the beginning of this journey Mr.G. You need to read and reread the secrets of sexual ecstasy. Each time you read it more understanding comes to you. I have been reading it for 6 mos over the past year and still I get more each time I read and think about what is written. Will it get to the point that your woman is befuddled? Maybe, I know Heather looks exhausted lately. But the point is energy accumulation for the male. Heather said to me " I stay totally sexually satisfied with you." Now I know what that family friend meant when she talked about husband. Iam no sword killer just a normal guy and it is astounding what energy accumulation does for me and my sexual stamina and overall well being. I think maybe Saville is beginning to see the energy accumulation factor.