A Woman With A 20-year Porn Addiction

Discussion in 'Women' started by Michael84, Jan 16, 2018.

  1. Michael84

    Michael84 Member

    Erica Garza has been addicted to sex and pornography since she was a little girl. Her first orgasm came as a tween while lying in a bathtub in her parent’s home in a middle class suburb. While dealing with the shame of having to wear a back brace to fight a childhood illness, she turned to adult entertainment on cable television, and later, the internet, to satiate her desires away from her parents’ eyes.
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    Her sex life became increasingly risky: there were encounters not just with strangers, but also without condoms. Garza eventually decided to do something about it when she realized her dependence on X-rated material had became an obsession and that she wasn’t able to connect emotionally with any men as a result.

    https://moneyish.com/ish/this-is-what-its-like-to-be-a-woman-with-a-20-year-porn-addiction/
     
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  2. Kris321

    Kris321 New Member

    so sad
     
  3. Zhizhuo

    Zhizhuo New Member

    She said a effective way to recover was be vulnerable to someone you trust. But I am so embarrassed to admit my sex addiction to my husband, what should I do?
     
  4. Funnygal

    Funnygal New Member

    I wish I could find a spouse maybe it would help. But I can't seem to get close to men.
     
  5. TicoFap

    TicoFap New Member

    You ladies really shouldn’t be that embarrassed about it. So many of us guys use porn or are addicted to it. It really doesn’t seem that far fetched to a guy if you tell him about it. How could we judge a girl for something almost all us guys do?

    I think the way you tell a person is what makes a huge difference. It’s how you approach somebody. If you come from a place of fear and insecurity then you might screw up. They might get scared a run away. But if you come from a place of self confidence and you realize this is just temporary. It’s happened to you, it’s happened to tons of people (girls included). Sexual disfunction from porn is no more than a desease. Like when you have a broken leg. All you need is time to heal and move on with your life.

    Just be casual about it. Just tell them how you’re taking some time off sex right now as a means of self exploration. Self betterment. Then you can bring porn into the discussion. You can say something like you and you’re ex boyfriend used to do it with porn sometimes and you noticed how it was affecting your sex life negatively bla bla bla and that right now you’re just giving yourself some time off! Just don’t make it look like a big deal. And then the other person won’t think it’s a big deal either!

    Just some feedback coming from a guy... if it makes a difference. Best wishes
     

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