The Apostle Paul counselled men who had trouble with a burning lust to get married (1 Corinthians 7:1-9). He says this even acknowledging that married life comes with its own spiritual challenges. Have you considered the possibility that God might want to change your attitude about marriage and lead you toward it? Have you considered the possibility that porn and masturbation may be the reason you're still single? Masturbation leads to introversion. Woman are not attracted to this. Being alone and single is one of the single hardest burdens a man can bear. Young couples these days are delaying marriage and having sex before consummation. This is a shame as marriage is what God intended and is an avenue that leads to healthy wholesome relationships.