What are the odds? I went to the same 20.000 members and got to the exact same list And I do agree with your advise. People should have a realistic view of what this journey entails and so they should expect slips. I honestly don't know where I stand with planned PMO. In theory I don't think it's a bad idea at all, but to me the control would be an issue indeed. Also because if 'short term me' would try and get me back into a cycle of PMO planned PMO could very well be something he would come up with to justify getting back to porn The reason why I made that post is that for me when I look at how often most of us (and that includes me) PMO from time to time I believe they might as find well find a way where they are more lenient towards PMO and in the same time get a better grip on their behaviour.