Hi Fiddler, I don't think my problem is PIV. I feel it's strictly performance anxiety. Even oral did'nt help after I lost it. I did see the PC thread and have tried working on conditioning that, I'm not sure if it's a problem or not but figured it could not hurt. What seems to help me the most is just taking it slow, and trying not to put any pressure on my self. I'm already seeing that I can stay hard a long time without fantasy. This morning my GF and I were making out and we did a lot of touching of each other at the same time. I must have been rock solid for at least 30-45 min. I'm just going to keep this up, so I can train my mind to remember that I can do this. I know it sounds silly, but as we know our mind works in really funny ways. I'm getting to the point where I'll get hard for touching her, and I've been trying to get her to touch me more, as it seems to have an effect. I think I just need to keep at it with her, and keep staying away from porn. Keep teaching myself that if I want to O then I better be able to get hard and stay hard. I have a beautiful GF, she loves, desires, and wants to satisfy me. And is usually available for me. That all I need. So all I need to do is perform...... Should not be that hard, right? I am seeing a big difference from where I was 6 months ago. At that time I could barely stay hard from porn, and from what I recall I would loose it shortly once I stopped viewing and escalating. And that was a good day.... Now I can stay hard for at least 30 min, fast and hard sex makes me shoot quick, and slow and steady makes her feel fantastic. I'm just missing being able to consistently perform on demand. Once I have that I will call this reboot complete and success. Good luck, and keep at it. You will be rewarded.