38-year-old virgin

Discussion in 'Ages 30-39' started by Londoner, Mar 25, 2016.

  1. Antonius

    Antonius Member

    How are you handling vacation, Londoner? Everything ok?
  2. Caoimhín

    Caoimhín Winter's coming...

    Hi Londoner

    Next time, try asking: Is it ok to give you a kiss? We so often assume that we, as guys, have to do all of the move-making and work this all out in our heads. But if you add this tiny little step, asking her, it will get everything outside of your head and into a place where she will clearly know what you are thinking.

    I might use it too... if I ever get to the point of trying to date again.

    Anyway, I hope that your trip to Oz was life-changing!
  3. Londoner

    Londoner Well-Known Member

    Will reply later, but for now just checking in to say I made it through the whole of January clean again!
  4. Londoner

    Londoner Well-Known Member

    Setting off home today. I won't lie, although I've been distracted enough to stay away from PMO throughout the trip, I've still thought about it a lot.
  5. TheScriabin

    TheScriabin Active Member

    ^Hey man, that’s totally normal. You did great.

    Hope you had an awesome trip!
  6. Londoner

    Londoner Well-Known Member

    Holiday was great, Australia is a beautiful country.

    I actually reached my second highest streak of 41 days clean from the beginning of the year, but relapsed after getting back from my trip. Back to 6 days clean now and feeling confident!
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  7. Caoimhín

    Caoimhín Winter's coming...

    During your trip, did you have any insights about what kind of man you are / want to be? Being out of your normal environment is a great way to gain new perspective! Keep that momentum going!

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