Hi Londoner Next time, try asking: Is it ok to give you a kiss? We so often assume that we, as guys, have to do all of the move-making and work this all out in our heads. But if you add this tiny little step, asking her, it will get everything outside of your head and into a place where she will clearly know what you are thinking. I might use it too... if I ever get to the point of trying to date again. Anyway, I hope that your trip to Oz was life-changing!