The thing is, I already knew she wasn't. Her family were leaving soon after Christmas, which is why I mentioned that period. I suppose I could send her one last message, though. Thanks, I feel like I made progress too, especially in getting her back to my flat. Everything else you said rings true as well, particularly about why she went cold. Anyway, I don't want to dwell on this missed opportunity. I wasn't even going to mentioned it here until I was asked, so best to just learn from it and move on.