Londoner, I feel for you. That must be a tough situation. I don't have the time to read through all 13 pages, but from what I gather you are able to go for longer No PMO streaks but still haven't had contact with a woman?? It may be quite difficult to go for a woman who is not a "10" after seeing nothing "less" in porn scenes, but you should go for any woman who is willing the first time (trust me you will enjoy it). Have you tried online dating? It's easy. Find a good picture of yourself where you are smiling, write a woman about a shared interest or something (just reference something she wrote in her profile). Write back and forth a few times, suggest texting, text a couple times, meet for coffee, fool around after a couple dates. Easy peasy. You're not likely to find the woman of your dreams this way, but there are lonely women out there and this will get you in the game. PS., Props for asking out a girl in real life!