21 year old - GF advice

Discussion in 'Erectile Dysfunction / Delayed Ejaculation' started by s00523, Mar 5, 2019.

  1. s00523

    s00523 New Member

    21 year old entering a new relationship.
    Currently have pretty bad PIED and can barely get it up in the bedroom - hence quitting porn/masturbation entirely (day 14).
    Can happily give her oral sex whenever she wants and we mutually enjoy it - is this affecting my reboot?
    I want this relationship to work more than anything and hence am willing to do whatever it takes to sort this PIED. She is very supportive but I feel horrible having to cut all sexual activity out.

    Any advice? suggestions?
    Cheers.
     
  2. K-Dot

    K-Dot We gon' be alright!

    Fuck what Paul Gonzales said
    You can satisfy your girl man, give her oral, finger her until your dick comes back to life (most of the women can't come just from penetration, but can from fingering and licking that pussy). Just temporary avoid orgasms (until you feel you're getting better). Do the cuddling, kissing it also helps you to rewire. Just don't be insecure about your PIED in front of her, don't make big deal of it. Insecurities are the biggest turn off for women, not actual PIED.
     
  3. s00523

    s00523 New Member

    Thanks for the advice K-Dot, much appreciated! Currently engaging in all that you've said^^
    When you say 'Don't be insecure' - does this mean not admitting to her my PIED?
     
  4. K-Dot

    K-Dot We gon' be alright!

    No, you should tell her about it. But do it in a manly way, don't be crybaby about it, make her your support, not your therapist. I even made a fun out of it. That's what i meant.
     
  5. s00523

    s00523 New Member

    Ahh I see, that's exactly how i've approached it and things are really starting to improve- thanks again!
     
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