Years ago, I was active on this site. I found here a community of men seeking, like I was, to heal what had been damaged by years of heavy porn use: our sex lives and our self esteem. Perhaps more. I found ample support here, and my life began to improve. Though I never hit the famed 90 Days Clean, it didn't seem to matter in the long run. The fight made me stronger. The more I came to respect my efforts, the more I respected myself; the more I respected myself, the more confident I became. Soon, I began to date again. By late 2014, I had met a lovely girl, and decided I no longer needed this site. I sailed off into the sunset, to be happy evermore... Five years later... Victory defeated me, lads. I became complacent, and porn wormed its way back into my life, sapping my confidence, my self-respect, and my sex life in ways all-too-familiar to us all. The time has come take up the Fight of Nofap again, and to reap the rewards. I stand before you to take on this Challenge: The Challenge I will abstain from porn and masturbation for the next 3 weeks, until September 21. Why 3 weeks? Why September 21? Because though I've spent some time in the Nofap trenches, it's been awhile, so I will start with a relatively modest goal. Modest, yes, but not easy. Also, Sept. 21 will mark my first wedding anniversary. Yes, I married the girl I landed with my original Nofap powers. Through this challenge, I hope to rededicate myself more fully to her. Porn came to distract me from her, but the fact is that I have a beautiful girl who loves me utterly, and she deserves the best of me. I won't be posting here every day. Rather, I expect I'll come here when I need the support of those who know this struggle best. So here's to the next 21 days clean! To brotherhood! And to recovery!