With the escort, what is the need you are trying to fill? Are you actually trying to relieve stress? If so then maybe a massage (from a legitimate place-no "happy ending") might be a better option. If you feel that you need to orgasm then I agree with Saville that MO could help. I think that one problem with going the escort route is that (like with porn) over time you would likely only remember the positive parts of the encounter and "forget" about any negative aspects. This could potentially cause you to be more likely to use escorts in the future when you are in the midst of similar circumstances (high stress, horniness?) that you are currently experiencing.