★ The 25-29 Rewiring League ★

Discussion in 'Ages 25-29' started by Ryan94, Feb 20, 2014.

  1. Ryan94

    Ryan94 Began my life again on 21/03/2014 - Nowruz

    Re: ★ The 2014 25-29 Rewiring Thread ★

    :eek: ??? Are you sure? Unless she dressed up as an elf, she should know never to dress with opposite colours!

    But that's beside the point. Well done on the approach Dan. Don't worry about the age (unfortunately for me, university girls seem to love older guys. I honestly wouldn't put it past them to consider a guy 11 years older) 29 isn't that old.
     
  2. Ryan94

    Ryan94 Began my life again on 21/03/2014 - Nowruz

    Re: ★ The 2014 25-29 Rewiring Thread ★

    That really is excellent to hear, little_rabbit ;) I like how you're practising basic social skills (like talking to other guys), rather than focusing on approaching women alone. You've got the perfect mindset for this.

    I find the more i go out, the more often i see 'the most beautiful woman i've ever seen'. So don't lose heart. You did well to initiate the conversation (at least spoke a few words) with the old woman there with you. It wasn't pathetic, and don't ever think any woman is out of your league. Even angels like her. I look forward to future reports from you loro :)
     
  3. Ryan94

    Ryan94 Began my life again on 21/03/2014 - Nowruz

    Re: ★ The 2014 25-29 Rewiring Thread ★

    Be sure to regularly check the front page for updates on the resources. I'm continuously adding new material. If you want me to add something, send me the link and i'll add it.

    Here's something that may help some of you still feeling anxiety when approaching:

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  4. Ryan94

    Ryan94 Began my life again on 21/03/2014 - Nowruz

    Re: ★ The 2014 25-29 Rewiring Thread ★

    I was replying to a guy on the Under 20 rewiring thread, and I thought this might help some people here:

     
  5. Kiuas

    Kiuas New Member

    Re: ★ The 2014 25-29 Rewiring Thread ★

    Is there a way to copy this directly to my google drive? Just like with Darxidius spreadsheet? I'm on Linux and don't have access to Microsoft Excel.
     
  6. Ryan94

    Ryan94 Began my life again on 21/03/2014 - Nowruz

    Re: ★ The 2014 25-29 Rewiring Thread ★

    It's not the first time someone asked me something like that, so i'm looking into an alternative now, and will PM you if there's another way. Thanks for stopping by Kiuas
     
  7. Kiuas

    Kiuas New Member

    Re: ★ The 2014 25-29 Rewiring Thread ★

    That would be super sweet! You can always PM me and we can work together on an alternative. I have a little experience in programming and I'll be glad to help.
     
  8. Ryan94

    Ryan94 Began my life again on 21/03/2014 - Nowruz

    Re: ★ The 2014 25-29 Rewiring Thread ★

    Yes! You have seen the light little rabbit. This is what it's all about! Don't adapt your life to women; adapt your life to life improvement which will then cause you to come into contact with women more frequently.

    I can see you're making good improvements. Maybe next time, practise gazing warmly into her eyes when you smile (the best place to look is between her eyes, at the bridge of the nose, rather than looking from and to each eye). Let us know how you do next time - don't be afraid to introduce yourself, even if you don't know what to say afterwards. That waitress certainly seemed to like you ;)
     
  9. Ryan94

    Ryan94 Began my life again on 21/03/2014 - Nowruz

    Re: ★ The 2014 25-29 Rewiring Thread ★

    My reply to someone on the Under 20 Rewiring thread may hopefully help a few of you here.

     
  10. gameover

    gameover Age: 26

    Re: ★ The 2014 25-29 Rewiring Thread ★

    How are people going at this?

    I have never approached a girl ir had a gf etc interested in how people are improving
     
  11. DanHibiki

    DanHibiki Member

    Re: ★ The 2014 25-29 Rewiring Thread ★

    Went out few days approached like 10 times, just to ask directions, all girls I didn't like when I see them in close, so didn't bother to say I was interested to know them. Just once saw a hot blonde girl, and went as usual directions -> small talk > ask for number, surprisingly got it, it was like a week ago, still didn't get to schedule a date, seeing forward though to set it up. So in march only got 2 numbers, but didn't do much work, so it's expectable.
     
  12. Ryan94

    Ryan94 Began my life again on 21/03/2014 - Nowruz

    Re: ★ The 2014 25-29 Rewiring Thread ★

    Just writing here to inform everyone that the Resource section has been through a major update.
     
  13. DanHibiki

    DanHibiki Member

    I'm still in. Kudos to Ryan94, you're doing huge work. How are you guys doing?

    Sorry I'm not posting here, I'm still doing approaches like 3 times a week, not a lot of success though, got some numbers, but had no dates.
     
  14. Pierce

    Pierce New Member

    Hello people, im 25 years old, with girlfriend and currently rewiring, can i participate in this league.

    Dude, first i must ask you a question, are you actually the one at the picture? if you are, the i dont know what the hell are you waiting for man, you are RIPPED, you should be able to get any girl you want.

    If you are still not convinced, try the following:

    At work/school:

    If you are studying at college, there must be TONS of girls everywhere, try talking to them after class, with starting lines such as "Wow this is hard, do you get this stuff?" or anything that doesnt resemble a pickup line, you dont know the person, but a little bit of small talk never hurt anybody.

    Remeber to keep talking for a while, about comedy shows, sports, tv series, try to find out what she likes and speak about it.

    After 3 minutes or so of speaking like that, try to introduce yourself, and the ask for her name (is good that she knows your name before you ask her). Talk to her like that for a few days, and the ask her out. Simple

    Clubs or bars:

    This should be even simpler most people go to places like days looking for a hookup, so dont sweat it.
    If you are at a dancing club or whatever, just aproaching her and asking "you wanna dance" should be enough, if she accepts, she likes you and its a good sing, if she doesnt, you should probably go away, try do small talk after you are done dancing.

    At a bar is simple too, just sit besides them and ask them how is she doing, and then offer to invite her a drink, talk to her, ask her out.
    Simple.
     
  15. amanwed

    amanwed New Member

    I am interested to join a rewired league. I'm 29 yo with severe PIED. I stop porn by July 2013. I never had girlfriend and never experienced love but want to.
     
  16. hardik1711

    hardik1711 New Member

    id like to join yhis league.well i wanna get sober.enjoy my life to yhe fullest which i know ive been missing.i m learnin medicine.i agree with wat u say.my interests are many.i hike,swim.kickbox,dance etc.bt everywhere i aint able to deliver completely and i know it.i lack confidence coz of this.
     
  17. gladiiator

    gladiiator New Member

    Though Im addicted to Porn since long & I think I knew about the problem with myself I really had nothing to co-relate to and with all the articles around on internet and mags saying Masturbation is OK even healthy you start thinking may be that really isn't the problem.

    Though I dont have problem so severe as many guys I read here still It is something and a lot & I know Im addicted. Somehow bumped into the forum before 2weeks (Thanks to my lucky stars). I could relate immediately & decided Im not going to relapse. But bad selfcontrol and I relapsed yesterday.

    I had started a lot of things already mentioned by underdog in the welcome PM working on my life and starting some kind of activity. But last week there was too much of travel and I couldnt or rather didnt keep up with my workout. This I guess acted like a catalyst when the urges came. So workouts are compulsory for me coz I want to lose weight (Im a lil over weight) & also to get rid of this addiction. I was so happy that Im free of all types of addictions only to be slapped with fact that I have been addicted all along. Well no more friends. I have changed!
     
  18. Battousai

    Battousai New Member

    Hi guys I'm new to the forum and the most optimistic 28yo guy ever (just kidding) and I would love to join the club :)
     
  19. afamilyguy

    afamilyguy New Member

    I would like to participate. A friend recommended I come here and participate to help in the process of healing from a porn dependent lifestyle. Should I make a journal thread and write in it daily? I'm sorry, I'm just not sure how this works...I appreciate any help. Thanks.
     
  20. dkg8877

    dkg8877 Guest

    I have a question, hopefully someone can give some thoughts or feedback. I'm 3 weeks into my reboot. Aside from urges and quite a bit of anxiousness, I haven't experience any significant flatlining or depression. I'm worried that I'm not experiencing the up's and down's widely described. Obviously these signs are not something to look forward to, but they serve as signals that we're moving through the process. Has anyone else felt like they were not experiencing the reboot process?
     

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