glad to see older guys writing in here..i'm 57 marriage had dead years is way better now.. some doubts about it still, maybe always, but...
it sounds like you can fix this with her.. bring her flowers or something everyday. Sweet nothings it took me 30 years of marriage to fully...
What was the focus of your self talk? What are your goals and what things do u most want to do in life ? Do you do those things/ If not, or not...
things are good with my wife. after many rocky years. we do have sex maybe every couple of weeks.. still way better than going for years...
You know you complain exclusively and, don't even seem to try to focus on what you do have, and what you could have. Ask yourself what you are...
I just came across this. i'm really down in the dumps right now... more from my mean unloving wife... but what you said in this post is somewhat...
It's interesting that men seem to have this inclination to unload . In someways it is good for us, but i think the person has become accustomed...
Cool, thanks, it's nice to talk to someone anonymously.. I'm not prudish about masturbation but it has always been a bit compulsive.. and the...
i've been depleting my energy esp mental focus... with wanting to porn... yea thanks for the positive inspiration... maybe will have...
i'm after 20 years of marriage working things out ... will have sex soon i hope.. btw i can't figure out how to post a new thread???...
looking for psychotherapy or psychiatrist or partner for counselling re compulsive masturbation
People used to have to use their body to survive, and/or work at physical jobs. Going to the gym was never necessary for those people. Also the...
If you get a girlfriend you'll want to be with her a lot more than alone fapping...
The biggest trouble - and it could vanish as soon as you get past it - is the uncomfortable feeling you described getting when around gals....
i feel like giving up on beating this habit
feeling discouraged. wife is grating. if no kids, i scrap it. gonna owrk on mu own shit rather than mope. from now until next Saturday I'm...
PMO has happened but am also starting to focus on studies and career.. would like more regular sex with wife.... so would others...
Gonna go offer my wife some love - worked all day.. time to hug - for no particular reason
this is kinda random... not sure what 'my point ' is. while there are beauty ideals in evolutionary theory, such ideals are very flexible...
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