Comments on Profile Post by Adrian089

  1. BuddhaPunkRobotMonk
    BuddhaPunkRobotMonk
    Sorry to hear Adrian. Flatlines just have to be endured. They will go away in time.
    Jun 12, 2018
  2. BuddhaPunkRobotMonk
    BuddhaPunkRobotMonk
    The big difference between natural and pornofied attraction, in my experience, is that natural attraction is more holistic, and pornified attraction more focused on the body. With natural attraction, you are attracted not only to bodies but a whole host of other factors that make up the person's personality. This is largely absent in porn attraction.
    Jun 12, 2018
  3. BuddhaPunkRobotMonk
    BuddhaPunkRobotMonk
    Sorry I just read your question again and I think I might have read it wrong. Are you asking ab out the difference between attraction you feel when you are a porn addict as opposed to the attraction you feel when you are not? Or are you asking about the difference in levels of attraction between the flatline period and when you are completely rebooted?
    Jun 12, 2018
  4. Adrian089
    Adrian089
    Thanks a lot for the fast response. The problem is I relapsed because of fear.. I have sex regularly with my girlfriend 2,3 times a week and I’m masturbating once a week because of fear.. Don’t wanna get back to that flatline state when I couldn’t reach an erection with my gf..I really like being attracted all time in the presence of women and feeling sexual desire
    Jun 12, 2018
  5. Adrian089
    Adrian089
    and I don’t wanna get in the end(after the reboot) to a mediocre or low sexual desire. I would be greatful if you could give me some advise.
    Jun 12, 2018
  6. BuddhaPunkRobotMonk
    BuddhaPunkRobotMonk
    The ends of reboots, that is our natural sexualities, are usually not characterized by low libido. Low libido may happen occasionally during a reboot because the brain is in the process of rewiring itself, but it is never, as far as I know, a permanent state.
    Jun 13, 2018
  7. BuddhaPunkRobotMonk
    BuddhaPunkRobotMonk
    You will have to go through a flatline sooner or later if you are interested in cutting out masturbation (which I assume you are, though I may be wrong). Best thing to do I think is to let your gf know what is going on and that you might not be interested in sex for a week or two. Once the flatline is over, your desire for your gf will come back, usually stronger.
    Jun 13, 2018