Thelongwayhome27's Recent Activity

  1. Thelongwayhome27 liked Joost's post in the thread Out of the Question.

    Thanks for your support guys. I think you're right about the expectations Longwayhome. Thanks.

    Oct 22, 2020 at 2:52 PM
  2. Thelongwayhome27 replied to the thread In Search of Lost Calm.

    Personally I disagree with the concept that using fantasy is necessarily bad. Also, I was only analyzing it in such a way for...

    Oct 22, 2020 at 10:15 AM
  3. Thelongwayhome27 liked DoneAtLast's post in the thread When quitting porn asks you to re-evaluate "sex positivity".

    This is interesting. I think the whole "In-Cel" meme that sprung up a few years ago painted a very one-dimensional picture of people...

    Oct 22, 2020 at 4:37 AM
  4. Thelongwayhome27 liked Pete McVries's post in the thread When quitting porn asks you to re-evaluate "sex positivity".

    Women can be very deceptive when it comes to showing their attraction towards someone. You not noticing them being attracted to you...

    Oct 22, 2020 at 4:37 AM
  5. Thelongwayhome27 liked Living's post in the thread When quitting porn asks you to re-evaluate "sex positivity".

    This is exactly the point. It's no so much about wether passionate sex does happen too or that there are people that have sex in the...

    Oct 22, 2020 at 4:37 AM
  6. Thelongwayhome27 replied to the thread In Search of Lost Calm.

    Day 10 I ended up MOing yesterday. @NewStart19 - sorry for only replying now but no I was not totally able to MO only to sensation. I...

    Oct 22, 2020 at 4:34 AM
  7. Thelongwayhome27 liked NewStart19's post in the thread A Better Tomorrow.

    Relapsed last night. It was a binge. Mostly porn with some fantasy. This is a more common pattern with me these days and it's an...

    Oct 17, 2020 at 4:32 PM
  8. Thelongwayhome27 liked Shady's post in the thread A Better Tomorrow.

    Sorry to hear. Keep going

    Oct 17, 2020 at 4:32 PM
  9. Thelongwayhome27 replied to the thread A Better Tomorrow.

    That's a good point I think. Better to finish it quick then to drag on with an edge. The lesser evil. I think this is a good decision....

    Oct 17, 2020 at 4:31 PM
  10. Thelongwayhome27 replied to the thread When quitting porn asks you to re-evaluate "sex positivity".

    @DoneAtLast - thank you for your response. I think it's helping me to clarify some things for myself. What bothers me sometimes is how...

    Oct 17, 2020 at 4:14 PM
  11. Thelongwayhome27 liked DoneAtLast's post in the thread When quitting porn asks you to re-evaluate "sex positivity".

    Exactly. I think "perfect sex" is an issue, but so are the peripheral experiences involved. I guess it goes back to the whole bit...

    Oct 17, 2020 at 4:12 PM
  12. Thelongwayhome27 liked Pete McVries's post in the thread In Search of Lost Calm.

    A friend once told me to love my diagnoses. What she meant by it was, I think, to forgive myself if I feel fear in social situations or...

    Oct 17, 2020 at 1:58 PM
  13. Thelongwayhome27 replied to the thread When quitting porn asks you to re-evaluate "sex positivity".

    Sorry if this is a little off topic but having re read this part of your post made me think the same effect/idea/principle can also be...

    Oct 17, 2020 at 12:44 PM
  14. Thelongwayhome27 replied to the thread In Search of Lost Calm.

    This is my 1000th post on this forum hooray ! :) The saying "Change happens when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain...

    Oct 17, 2020 at 10:10 AM
  15. Thelongwayhome27 liked Shady's post in the thread In Search of Lost Calm.

    Concerning social media, I reduced the frequency of me checking social media to once a week. I had noticed that whenever I checked my...

    Oct 17, 2020 at 9:30 AM