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    Accepting Responsibility

    This!
    Post by: Saville, Aug 16, 2022 at 8:13 AM in forum: Ages 40+
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    Starting a new Journey

    Great post!
    Post by: Saville, Aug 16, 2022 at 8:11 AM in forum: Ages 40+
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    How I managed to get my life on track

    That's amazing! I probably used booze similarly to you. I drank to fill the void. I'm not totally tea-total, but I seldom drink now and never to...
    Post by: Saville, Aug 15, 2022 at 8:36 AM in forum: Ages 40+
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    How I managed to get my life on track

    I hate to use the word spectrum (lol) but Nice Guys are on a spectrum. Some of what Glover says does not ring true for me, either, but it's an...
    Post by: Saville, Aug 14, 2022 at 7:43 AM in forum: Ages 40+
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    New Here, have some questions

    It doesn't matter whether you are into femdom, shemales, gay porn, anal, etc....it's all porn! Your wife is just a proxy for your addiction to...
    Post by: Saville, Aug 13, 2022 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Time to heal

    You nailed it! Garages and sheds get messy. They do reflect our lives in some ways, as you've pointed out. But sometimes these messy places are a...
    Post by: Saville, Aug 13, 2022 in forum: Ages 40+
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    A New Decade - Let's Go

    Keep working the program! :)
    Post by: Saville, Aug 12, 2022 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Accepting Responsibility

    Yes we are! :) That's great that you made love with your wife. DE will resolve with continued abstinence from PMO and MO. I went from having DE...
    Post by: Saville, Aug 11, 2022 in forum: Ages 40+
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    New thread for an old member

    You're pretty much dancing around the core issue, Old Boozehound. You obviously can't imagine a life without alcohol, which is a huge warning...
    Post by: Saville, Aug 11, 2022 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Accepting Responsibility

    This will eventually lead to MO and the PMO. One of my addictions was to sexting and cybering. I really got off on writing about having sex. For...
    Post by: Saville, Aug 11, 2022 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Where you stumble, there lies your treasure

    I heard a quote the other day: "sin is the addiction to being less than ourselves." If we take out "sin" and replace it with "P" I think that sums...
    Post by: Saville, Aug 11, 2022 in forum: Ages 40+
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    A New Decade - Let's Go

    Yup, all the porn sites are trafficking in human misery. When we partake of P then we are complicit in whatever nefarious things are going on...
    Post by: Saville, Aug 11, 2022 in forum: Ages 40+
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    My first post - just confessed to my wife

    Yeah, there's probably some rewiring to do, but you also were traumatized when you confessed your addiction to your wife. Part of trauma is being...
    Post by: Saville, Aug 11, 2022 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Moz journal

    Great to hear things are going well! Once you ditch the peeking you will discover an even more incredible Moz! I'm excited for you!
    Post by: Saville, Aug 9, 2022 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Document the Victory

    Yes, I hear you. When I was at my lowest there was no helping hand extended. My wife withheld love from me because she was more interested in the...
    Post by: Saville, Aug 9, 2022 in forum: Ages 40+