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    PMO, Chat, and The rise and fall of my sex life.

    Maybe you need to raise your standards and start taking this more seriously. Since you've identified that weekends are the times you usually...
    Post by: Rapha, Nov 13, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Rapha's recovery thread

    Sometimes feels as if my wife and I are strangers. Increasingly she doesn't seem to want to be in the same space as me. If I'm downstairs she will...
    Post by: Rapha, Nov 5, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Rapha's recovery thread

    In my last post I mentioned that I have a lot of free time and that I'm frequently home alone. I need something to keep me on the right track...
    Post by: Rapha, Oct 31, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Rapha's recovery thread

    It's one of those periods where work is quiet, I'm home alone and have nothing to do. However, I'm feeling a renewed sense of positivity....
    Post by: Rapha, Oct 22, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    ....but the fighter still remains.....

    Don't be too harsh on yourself about this and maybe you're overthinking it. The important thing is, you and your wife shared an act of intimacy...
    Post by: Rapha, Oct 20, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Again, I Need A Community to Help...

    Is there anything you can learn from the binge you went on, i.e. what steps can you take to make sure you're better prepared next time? You've...
    Post by: Rapha, Oct 20, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Rapha's recovery thread

    Watched a programme about young women affected by anorexia, it was one of the most upsetting things I've ever seen. Despite the hugely negative...
    Post by: Rapha, Oct 18, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Rapha's recovery thread

    Almost a month since I last posted here. I'd love to say things have been going well, but in truth I relapsed in a big way and beat myself up...
    Post by: Rapha, Oct 16, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Rapha's recovery thread

    The last 9 days have been much better. While I have still engaged in certain compulsive behaviour, there has been a vast improvement overall. I've...
    Post by: Rapha, Sep 20, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Here we go... I need some accountability to keep going

    I've experienced similar, i.e. upon relapsing felt too hypocritical and self conscious to come here. But that's the wrong attitude. We should try...
    Post by: Rapha, Sep 10, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Rapha's recovery thread

    Yes @Bobo belief is a critical ingredient. You're right about that. We have to believe that we can change. I'm finally out of the pit of misery...
    Post by: Rapha, Sep 10, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Rapha's recovery thread

    I've been up to my old tricks and have been stupidly paying girls online. Same old story, I've been doing it to avoid dealing with uncomfortable...
    Post by: Rapha, Sep 3, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Rapha's recovery thread

    Quite some time ago when things seemed to be going well I wrote in my journal I didn't think I'd ever go back to relying on sexually compulsive...
    Post by: Rapha, Aug 15, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Too Late to the Party?

    I foresee a career for you as a romantic novelist :p
    Post by: Rapha, Jul 5, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Time To Get Serious Before It's To Late

    As the others, have said, no harm was done. Far better than paying for a webcam session and then feeling miserable and ashamed. At least this was...
    Post by: Rapha, Jul 5, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+