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    onesea's journey

    Its been months since I've been here. I've been sick and injured and focused on other things outside of my control. And I've been staying busy...
    Post by: onesea, Mar 30, 2018 in forum: Ages 40+
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    onesea's journey

    I find myself regaining some of my balance after a year of stress and change. The unemployment, bad neighbor issues, moving away, depression,...
    Post by: onesea, Nov 28, 2017 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Reminder to myself

    This site is definitely not secure. That has always bothered me. I do think some sites are secure and this should be one of them. If I was a...
    Post by: onesea, Nov 28, 2017 in forum: Ages 40+
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    onesea's journey

    The best medicine for staying away from porn is to be busy, productive, observant of self and content. That doesn't stop the thinking about it...
    Post by: onesea, Nov 8, 2017 in forum: Ages 40+
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    I quit

    Like your observations Wanderer. Welcome!
    Post by: onesea, Nov 8, 2017 in forum: Ages 40+
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    onesea's journey

    Saville, yeah she was an old cat. I was attached to her as a friend who saw me through some really dark times. A dog would have done the same...
    Post by: onesea, Oct 17, 2017 in forum: Ages 40+
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    onesea's journey

    Sorry for the long delay. I still find myself getting too busy working on the house. Newman - yeah I have thought of early retirement but I...
    Post by: onesea, Oct 17, 2017 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Reminder to myself

    Saville I need to remember everything you wrote above. I am in fear of my days becoming monotonous and what it will do to me. I want to get to...
    Post by: onesea, Oct 3, 2017 in forum: Ages 40+
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    onesea's journey

    Newman, That is what I keep telling myself. It is okay for me to grieve. All of our pets are like family members and it hurts whether it is a...
    Post by: onesea, Oct 3, 2017 in forum: Ages 40+
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    onesea's journey

    Well I'm back. The almost two months I have been away has been spent moving, remodeling and trying to settle into our new home. I have had many...
    Post by: onesea, Sep 28, 2017 in forum: Ages 40+
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    onesea's journey

    fcjl8,Newman - I'm doing just fine right now. Most of my time is spent on my house move. My wife is off for a couple of weeks and we are...
    Post by: onesea, Jul 26, 2017 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Reminder to myself

    Just checking in on you while I'm moving. I don't know all of the history of your marriage or any other aspect of your life, just some of it. I...
    Post by: onesea, Jul 26, 2017 in forum: Ages 40+
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    A Good Path

    Great to hear you doing so well staying away from the pmo. As for the intimacy with the wife, it's a process. It's a process in how we heal from...
    Post by: onesea, Jul 7, 2017 in forum: Ages 40+
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    Reminder to myself

    Newman, I find that boundaries are very important to being able to heal myself and relate to other people. As I heal, I need my space, my own...
    Post by: onesea, Jul 7, 2017 in forum: Ages 40+
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    onesea's journey

    Had a good weekend Newman. I'm super busy with a move so I don't know how much I will be on here in a few weeks. I'll be here until then. We...
    Post by: onesea, Jul 7, 2017 in forum: Ages 40+