Thanks Rugger. Yard work was good and therapeutic, and followed it with a half hour walk around the neighborhood. I stuck to my plan yesterday. I...
Morning Rugger, looks like you've reset, but make the rest of this day clean! We'll get there, man.
Thanks Mad Dog. I think I'm making progress. But my Achilles heel is always taking the first step in the wrong direction. I did a course...
Very true! Even when real sex isn't mind-blowing, it's still infinitely better than PMO. No contest.
That's awesome! I think that's key, forlorn. Just erasing PMO from our lives won't sustain us for long. We need to improve the quality of our...
You're right, Badger! Calling myself out here. Was on YouTube listening to music and spent some time looking at women. Clothed, but still...not...
Yes indeed. We might as well keep improving ourselves while we're still on this planet. Breaking out of tired old habits is essential. Thanks,...
You're right on the money here, forlorn. Our long history of rationalizing has created our feeling of inevitability that we will keep doing it....
What Gil and Saville said! I'm going through the same grind you are, Cali. Power through it. We will get to the other side. Just gotta keep...
Ask yourself if you would be happier without her. Be honest with yourself. It sounds like you love each other. Would being "free" make you happier...
Saville, I've never met you, but I've read your thoughts on what brought you here for many years now. I don't see you falling back into that...
Good job letting the urges pass. Find productive ways to use whatever time your relaxed day will allow for. Vigilance, Rugger. Day 3 will look so...
Yes we can, forlorn. As always, for me anyway, the biggest challenge is forming the habit to redirect my mental energy when the urges come on...
Had a really good day yesterday. No porn, no alcohol, stayed focused on my work. Days like that give me the best reason ever for staying clean. It...
Sitting down to work and staying clean. I'm gonna power through this and if there are any urges (none so far), I'll walk away and redirect.
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