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  1. Gil79 liked Rudolf Geyse's post in the thread A New Decade - Let's Go.

    Halfway to the current goal. NO peeking, NO fantasy. A totally clean week, and one of the best (not easiest, but best) I can remember....

    Feb 2, 2023 at 11:26 AM
  2. Gil79 liked Saville's post in the thread Time to heal.

    Now that I'm retired I'm trying a lot of different things. I'm loving the tai chi and I like the peeps who practice it with me. It's...

    Feb 1, 2023 at 10:30 AM
  3. Gil79 liked Mozenjo's post in the thread Time to heal.

    Yes, winters can be difficult. If we're stuck inside, we need to have things to do, preferably not involving electronics of any kind....

    Feb 1, 2023 at 10:30 AM
  4. Gil79 liked forlorn's post in the thread Time to heal.

    Feeling unwell today but on the plus side, I've stayed away from P for a few days now. Recognise that I need another hobby, something to...

    Feb 1, 2023 at 10:30 AM
  5. Gil79 liked forlorn's post in the thread Being satisfied with what I already have.

    I think many of us can relate to this. Fear of rejection and a sense that we're not good enough. As for the work thing, there's no...

    Feb 1, 2023 at 10:29 AM
  6. Gil79 liked Saville's post in the thread Being satisfied with what I already have.

    I don't know if there's a term "outsider syndrome," but it seems to be a prevalent feeling. I guess imposter syndrome could be tied...

    Feb 1, 2023 at 10:29 AM
  7. Gil79 replied to the thread Everything you ever wanted lives on the other side of fear..

    Awesome @Dr. Jekyll! Congrats!!

    Jan 31, 2023 at 5:52 AM
  8. Gil79 liked Rudolf Geyse's post in the thread A New Decade - Let's Go.

    It's going to happen. Somewhere between now and day 18 I'm going to get that hankering. An image from the last binge has stuck with me....

    Jan 31, 2023 at 5:51 AM
  9. Gil79 liked Saville's post in the thread Being satisfied with what I already have.

    What do you think you're afraid of?

    Jan 31, 2023 at 5:50 AM
  10. Gil79 replied to the thread Being satisfied with what I already have.

    In this particular case I think I was afraid of 2 things: not being socially accepted and the beginning of another work week I live...

    Jan 31, 2023 at 5:50 AM
  11. Gil79 liked Rudolf Geyse's post in the thread A New Decade - Let's Go.

    I've upped the journalling, multiple times a day, and am asking for prayer from brothers at church, which has all put my head in a much...

    Jan 30, 2023 at 12:37 AM
  12. Gil79 liked notmyrealname's post in the thread My story.

    I've just deleted about 470GB of 3D porn. I'm not sure how to feel about doing that - I don't really feel sad or happy, just a bit...

    Jan 30, 2023 at 12:37 AM
  13. Gil79 liked ruggerdoug's post in the thread Well look who is here .... UGH..

    At some level all of this is a self control issue. Today, I feel like I have none. No self discipline. Up until college I didn't have...

    Jan 30, 2023 at 12:36 AM
  14. Gil79 liked path-forward's post in the thread Accepting Responsibility.

    Saville. Thanks very much for sharing all that. A lot to unpack. But for me, I have always felt relatively dominant towards women in my...

    Jan 30, 2023 at 12:34 AM
  15. Gil79 liked Saville's post in the thread Accepting Responsibility.

    Interesting! This definitely is not what motivated me. I never felt like I was getting away with something. It was more that it took...

    Jan 30, 2023 at 12:33 AM